Why We Dont Write Our Books

Suzanne Falter-Barns

In the ten years that Ive taught people how to get on with their books, Ive noticed a phenomenon that Ill call Authors Block. Would-be writers can, indeed, sit down and work when pressed to it. The problem is that theyre not so sure they want the pressure of being an author. But they do want to. But they dont. And so on.

Ah, the agony of getting on with your book.

Well, Im here to diffuse that situation with a list of what I think are the key reasons we dont immediately set down to write. Perhaps this will help the next time you find yourself polishing doorknobs instead of sitting down to write.

 We lie to ourselves about why we cant write the book. We think our stalling is about lack of time, or too much pressure at work, or not enough solitude in the evening. But guess what Chances are a deeper, darker reason may be at play, like Im not supposed to be bigger than Mom or What if this thing really takes off

 We fear the impact our book could have. Sometimes when I coach writers in my self-help authors crash course, Ill ask them whats impeding progress. And after some probing, it will come out that theyre afraid of the big exposure a book can have if it takes off. Im here to assure you that should that happen, and chances are your book will not unleash wild mobs of millions you will be able to handle it. How do I know On that deep level where psyche meets karma, you wont create a reader more than youre ready to receive.

 We think our book doesnt matter, so why bother One writer I know put this so succinctly: Ive tried getting up at 5AM to write, and staying up late, and leaving my home, but none of it works. I have this tired feeling that none of its going to amount to a hill of beans. In fact, writing and publication can be an entirely self-determined activity these days. If the publishing pundits dont go for your book, theres always self-publishing and e-books on your website. In other words, your book does matter, and you really have no excuse. Acid test: if the book keeps on patiently urging you to sit down and write it for months and even years, chances are youd better do it.

 We think we dont know how to write a book. Guess what Neither does any other first time writer. And that may be a wonderful thing because you dont com in with a carload of expectations and demands from your process. Youre just open, like well, a nice blank book. All you really need is your intuition, and the will to write your book as honestly as you can.

 We have no support. You need someone in your corner, cheering you on, to get through the long and somewhat tiring process of birthing a book. Thats why my Self-Help Authors Crash Course is not an e-book believe me, it would be easier! but a 12-week teleclass series. Because these writers need a place to show up and be accountable for their progress. They need someone to keep saying, Yes, you really can do this. Thats how tricky and difficult our minds are when it comes to big challenges.

 Were afraid well run out of material. There isnt a writer out there who hasnt had this fear. And Im here to say that if you just stay loose and open, and willing to receive the ideas, they will show up. All you have to do is commit really sit down, and begin to bring that book into being and the work will magically appear. Sometimes it wont flow that easily, and sometimes it will scare you with its speed and power. But it will, indeed, show up.

 We think Who am I to write a book And yet, you are the perfect person to write your book, because youre the one chosen to receive this material. You dont have to be spiritually inclined to believe this. I personally believe that books are given to us when were ready to receive them and when we do, our lives are changed by that process.

 We fear uncomfortable moments. Ah, but thats the most exciting thing about writing your book. You will be given challenges and lessons that just seem untenable along the way. And if youre committed enough, youll rise above them and so become stronger in the process. This is especially true for self-help books: we write what we need to learn.

Im here to urge you to just get on with your book. Not only do you deserve it so do we.

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About The Author

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